Romjul

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” -Matthew 11:28 NKJV

In recent years I’ve learned the Danish term “hygge” and have great appreciation for creating coziness when the weather is not cozy. Although I’ve lived in SW Florida since I was ten, the snow belt of the NY Lake Ontario coast was the first coast I knew with it’s blizzards, snowdrifts and grey days; shaking off the cold as you welcome the warmth of the indoors. Creating and enjoying a warm atmosphere brings to mind fireplaces, candle glow, steaming mugs of hot drinks or soups, warm socks, reading books under piles of blankets – you get the idea.

This year I learned that in Norway, the time between Christmas and New Year’s Day is called “Romjul” – around Yule/Christmas. Consider it space to create and recreate after the holiday doings and before stepping into 2022, time to pause, reconsider, just chill and slow down enough to dream again and plan a little. I’ve settled into this space and let it reenergize me, adjust my focus and take time to allow a settling and reset before embarking on the new year with a fresh start.

We’re just a few hours away from 2022 yet most of us have a few hours of space this weekend to experience Romjul before truly embarking into the new year. I encourage you to find some space and settle in, breathe deeply. Then take a few moments to consider those around you, express your thankfulness (no matter if it can only be for the little things), give of yourself – your time, your attention, your love. Our lives can change in the timespan of a heartbeat, truly – one heartbeat. It happened to our family; we were totally turned upside down. What will rock your world? Maybe something already has and you’re reeling from it. In the midst of that life-storm, God knows; He’s “got this.” His plans for us do not end as we are hurt or suffer, as our bodies decline nor as they pass away, rather His plans for us extend into and throughout eternity. We’ve only just begun. You’ve likely heard, “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present.”. Take a moment today to reflect on the gift of today and to be a gift by being “present” with those around you. It will be well worth your time.

Father, we cherish times of rest and reflection. Help us to open ourselves to receiving Your refreshing, Your rest, and the comfort from Holy Spirit, that we may be able to comfort those who are troubled. (2 Corinthians 1:4 NKJV)

SONG LINK:
John Williams “Hogwart’s Great Hall Compilation”

https://youtu.be/_v4cgUVBsi4

Ponder

“Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.”
Luke 2:19 NIV

” Pondered them in her heart.” Not something we hear very often, yet right now, as our society goes through a “stay at home” time, many of us can take time to ponder, contemplate, mull things over. Upon hearing the shepherds’ report of what the angels said, the mother of Jesus took a moment aside; the past nine months had been cause for many overwhelming feelings! Many times in the busyness of life, I’ve felt God nudge me to take a moment, to slow down. As I practice this I find:
– I can quiet myself and put the “noise” aside
– my thinking becomes clearer
– more options surface for consideration
– I am more conscious of receiving His peace
– direction becomes more evident

Personally, I still associate the term ponder with with a friend from years ago who used that word regularly in our discussions. His familiar usage of that word consequently caused me to pause and think more carefully. I am SO grateful for that lesson! It is now my practice whenever I begin to feel anxiety, fear or a sense of overwhelming coming at me to step away to ponder, usually by myself (even only for a few moments and even in a bathroom). And now, I encourage you to ponder – contemplate, consider – especially before making important decisions. Every decision, every step determines the direction you take and is worth taking an extra moment of conscious thought.

Oh, Father, as feelings and cares of life try to overwhelm me, help me to cast me cares on You because You care for me.
(I Peter 5:7)

Chuck Girard “Slow Down”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XUtXIho15mE